We Are Failing Black Boys

I keep seeing this argument being made that black boys are being “coddled” and that this is why many of them grow up to struggle as men. What confuses me most about this argument is that it’s most often used in conversations about black men who have criminal records, histories of violence, low education andContinue reading “We Are Failing Black Boys”

Black Girls Deserve Love That Doesn’t Hurt and It Starts With Us

“My mother was the first person to teach me that love looks like violence…” I was awakened to being pulled from my bed by my hair and dragged from my room to the kitchen. I was thrown to the grown and hit in my face repeatedly. I had no idea what was happening or why.Continue reading “Black Girls Deserve Love That Doesn’t Hurt and It Starts With Us”

A Word About Bodily Autonomy

It doesn’t start with penetration. It starts with “where’s your smile?” It starts with ogling, with catcalling, With being followed down the street by men demanding attention. It starts with “fuck you bitch” when I don’t respond. It starts with unwelcome advances and unwanted touching, And being met with anger when I ask you toContinue reading “A Word About Bodily Autonomy”